Life…

It feels just yesterday,when I started my Graduation. But its a year since I Graduated. The last year had been full of up’s and Down’s but Alhumdulillah Allah made me stronger each day. I never thought I could be so strong but Allah made it possible for me :).

I became and aunt and now have 5 amazing nieces. All of them are the most cutest babies I have ever seen. MashaAllah.

Things have changed and reading my older posts made me realise how stupid and child-like I have been even when I was 18. But Alhumdulillah with time Allah swt gave me the Akhal and guided me from wrong to right.

Alhumdulillah right now my life is like a dream come true, I work for Google ( through a vendor), I have the most supportive and loving family, The most amazing and understanding Fiancée, The wonderful friends. Each day I pray that all of this should always be like this In shaa Allah.

 

May Allah guide us all towards the right path and Always shower his blessings on us Ameen 🙂

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A Few Rules For A Happy Marriage

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1 Tell each other you love each other.

2 Never both be angry at the same time.

3 If you have to criticize , do it lovingly

4 Never bring up old mistakes.

5  Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled

6  Neglect the whole duniya rather than each other

7 Pray together at-least once a day

8 Remember behind every successful spouse is an exhausted partner

9 Remember it takes two to quarrel

10 When you have done something wrong,admit it

11 At-least once a day say something kind or complimentary to your partner

12 Do not go to bed more than 10 minutes after your partner

13 Listen when your partner is speaking

14 Remember your spouse id more important that TV/Match/radio etc

15 Notice when your partner is wearing something new or had a new hairdo

16 Remember anniversaries

17 Thank your partner for the gifts and efforts on your behalf

18 Last one up,make the bed

19 Notice when your spouse looks tired and do something about it

20 Never run your partner down or criticize them in public

Dubai

As salaamalaikum 🙂

I am in Dubai the second vacation in the year alhumdulillah ( first being KSA)

Soo.. Dubai… Hmmm nice place..more lively than KSA…(the only difference I found). Same malls malls everywhere. May be her we might find a few more fun places like ski Dubai. Beaches in both the places, huge stupid buildings. I have no idea what they get by making such tall buildings. Now they are making anothe structure in Jeddah taller than the Burj khalifa.( it seems they waited untill the number of floors were openly declared for khalifa to strt their own stoppid structure)) aaaahhhhhhhhhh!!! Madess.

The other thing I like about this place is the Food, hugeee variety of food..
But but.. Nothing can beat al baik (Jeddah ) yummm!!!

Maaaan!! I have just been talking about food all the time since I came back from KSA in july!!!

Soo.. Basically UAE n KSA are. More or less the same

Dubai is like Riyadh

Sharjah is like Jeddah

I saw all those wonderful cars of which we only heard or read.

And the other place we went to I. Al ain… Raas al khaima( sorry if the spelling is wrong)
that’s a wonderful wonderful place 🙂

that’s all for now!!
Sleepyy!!!

Allahafiz 🙂

In The Country I LOVE The Most…

As-salaamalaikum 🙂

I have been living in The KINGDOME OF SAUDIA ARABIA since 4 days,and its amazing :). All I do is eat eat & eat :).

Day 1 : arrived at the Riyadh airport at 2 in the afternoon. Dad picked from the airport and then Home. ” I dont want to go back to India” were my first words 🙂

Day 2 : Started for Dammam at 12:50 in the afternoon by the train and reached at 5:45. The journey was boring. Reached there went to W cha’s home and in the night went to the beach. It was awesome

Day 3: went to a mall in the morning and in the afternoon to the IIS Dammam. 🙂 Amazing school :). Went to the HAlf Moon beach in the afternoon. Had loads and loads of FUN 🙂 In the night had dinner at beach side 🙂

Day 4: Woke up late in the morning. Had breakfast and have been eating since then. Came to Mama’s house in the evening and again went to ladies market for shopping. Did loads of shopping :). Had awesome dinner 🙂

This is alll.. Still more to go 🙂

Madness

I have been away for like.. I dont even remember. :P. I have been going mad with my projects and the college work. The last month had been a MAD one,with so much to do and no time. 3 projects which took like 45 days for me to complete. And the hardwork we all did was worth. The final projects were a big success,the teachers appreciated our efforts and we all were given Grace marks for that.. lalalalaallal!! After that we had our pre-final practicals. FIT and BOM were good,Accounts wasnt that well.

A lot happened in the last month,for instance my cousing sister got married like within 10 days. The groom’s side people came to see her on Jan 3rd and they got married on Jan 13th :P. It was like a shock for everyone. Only the Nikah was performed,she still lives here with us. The Vidai is in July Inshallah.And another of my cousin is also getting married at the same time. Its going to be fun coz everyone is coming down here for the wedding :).

And yea the best news is that Inshallah me,mom,and maryam will be flying to Saudi this year for Umrah and spending the summer vacation. We came here in 1999 so its like a decade later we will be going to the place where we were born. 🙂 🙂 :).. am so excited :).

My niece has become such a brat,she ignore you if she doesnt like you. Do what all you can in front of her to make her smile,but if she doesnt like you she wouldnt even look at you face :P. And sometimes when she is in full JOSH she shouts like anything. Shes makin everyone crazy.. Mashallah she stands now,and holds things and talks back when we say her something,making all those cute faces. 🙂 Mashallah!

Thats it for now. Will bebusy again till april 17th thats when my finals are going to end.. pheewww its a loooooooonnggggg time 🙂

Happy To You :)

Your anniversary is a time
For sharing your affection;
It’s obvious the two of you
Have quite a deep connection!
I/We send glad congratulations
And heartfelt wishes, too,
For joyful happiness and love
In everything you do.

Your anniversary marks the day
When you both said “I do.”
The two of you became as one,
A marriage bright and new.
Now time has passed; your love is strong;
You passed the early test.
Your tender bond grows with passing time;
Your marriage is the kind that’s best!

No one can know what the outcome
Of spending years together will be.
Being happy together is a gift,
And enduring love is the key.
So here’s to a favored couple;
Everything has worked right for you.
May your future bring more of the same,
And your love remain strong and true.

Come everyone let’s give a cheer,
In celebration of a couple dear.
A couple who in love unite,
And are seldom cross and rarely fight.
To a couple who bring joy to all,
May you laugh and sing and have a ball.
May happiness surround you two,
That is what I wish for you.

Sorry hum khudi se kuch nai likh paaye kuch bhi :(. Inshallah Jaldi likhte 🙂 🙂
Happy 1st Anniversary to you both. May Allah Ta’al bless you both on this day and for the years to come :). And may you be happy forever and ever, Ameen

Loads Of Louve…
Mariya.. 🙂 🙂

Finally…

Finally I am done with my entrance exam for CA. It was kind of good,hoping that I might get qualified,Inshallah.

The test was based on Maths,Accounts,Mercantile Laws and Economics,with negative marking. You get a -1/4th mark for every wrong answer,[this is so irritating]. I have been studying like MADNESS for about two weeks and its was such a  relief when the exam was done with. The results will be announced on Jan 15th 2010 Inshallah :). The paper was of 200 marks and you need to get 99.25 to be considered as PASS. Anything below that is FAIL. I felt really nice when I finished the exam, am praying that I should get over with it in the first attempt.

Anyways the college Re-Opened today after 10 days of Holidays,because of some stupid Telengana fight. Non-Voilence everywhere. The govt had a loss of like 27 crores.Buses were burnt,the glass pane of malls were smashed with stones and rallies all around the city. Hyderabad and its people are gone CRAZY! Madness everywhere. [Madness- the new word that I am saying for like everything]. Have to submit 3 project reports by the end of the month.Its going to e a serious hectic month for us. Phewww… and coz of this bandh since the last 10 days our Christmas Vacation is cancelled,am happy about it actually. I hate sitting at home. I louve my college and I feel so so goood there. 🙂 :)..

Thats all for now. Will be updating about things soon Inshallah ..

And yeah My Niece has become such a monster. She’s 2 months and reacts to poeples voices perfectly. We all call her by different names. I call her Jaan-e- Mann, so wheneve I call her this she turns around to look for me and gives this BIG smile that makes my day wonderful. Mashallah 🙂 Even when Dad talks to Her over the phone shes kinds of searches Him around the room to see where the voice is coming from. Mashallah she’s a very active kid 🙂

7 OVERRATED THINGS!

1) LOVE:

99% of the Bollywood movies are made on love. Thanks to those people who think love is the most important thing in their life.  There is so much focus on romantic love and youngistaanis think that they should have  a boyfriend or girlfriend to survive! For those who are single – chill and enjoy your single status single-mindedly

2)WEDDINGS/MARRIAGES:

There is so much hype about the weddings – right from clothes to the honeymoon. Married couples are bombarded with so many questions as if they are the first to get hitched! Agreed its one of the most important day of one’s life- but its not the only one

3)BOLLYWOOD:

We are so addicted to bollywood that we want to know every detail of our favourite star we want to know what they eat ,drink,where they go for shopping. Who is dating who and who is getting hitched,birth of  a star kid. Seriously how is ti going to help us?? Get a life

4) BEAUTY:

Despite knowing that beauty is only skin deep people are so obsessed with it. We want to fix our crooked nose,get cheek implants,get tummy tucks. And we love “Fairness Creams”. Thanks to sillly ads people rush to buy any beauty product and they dont mid emptying their pockets for the. Just learn to love the way you look and you will be much more happier

5) CRICKET:

There is nothing much to say about cricket except that we are all cricket fanatics.  Yes all of us. Here’s a test: can you name a single hockey player’s name? (its supposed to be the national game of India). There are other games that are interesting too

6) Gold:

We dont even have to say how much we love gold. Women are so infatuated with it- they will wear it from head to toe(no matter how expensive it is). Artificial jewellery is so much cooler and not to forget cheaper too

7)TOO MUCH EMPHASIS ON MATHS AND SCIENCE STREAMS:

All of us have faced this problem- our parents want  us to choose maths or science right after Xth standard. Right at our birth they decide that  ” one should become a doctor,the other engineer”.TYPICAL!! For the millionth time there are other streams to choose form – Literature,journalism,music,arts,business.

In my view I think all these are just overrated things. This was like a tag so I tag

– Miss Specs

– Haris Gulzar

-Liya

– Haleem

– SAWJ

– Leena S


Things I Dont Like About Men & Women

MEN:

– I hate men’s perfumes,they give me a bad headache

-I hate men who wear PINK

– I hate men who wear sports shoe on formals and salwaar kameez

– I hate men who asks the girl to pay the bill

– I hate men who dont like being romantic

– I hate men who are always roaming in front of Girl’s colleges

– I hate men who use women as tissue

– I hate men who dont like kids

– I hate men who takes time for getting dressed

– I hate men who dislike CRICKET

– I hate men who are self-obsessed

– I hate men who are particular about BRANDS and FOOD >:P

WOMEN:

– I hate women who come with their hair open to college

– I hate women who come to college wit MAKE UP >:P

– I hate women who uses STRONG perfumes

– I hate women who are over protective about their skin

– I hate women who take time for getting dressed

– I hate women who applies coloured eye penci {ewwwww}

– I hate women who take zillion pictures of them

-I hate women who say ” meku kuch bhi kaam karna nai aata”

– I hate women who dont like kids

– I hate women who back answers to their parents { girls are meant to be the nicer ones,thats why this one}

– I hate women who dont participate in any sort of physical activities

I guess that’s all. I think I hate things about women more than i hate things about Men 😛 😛 😛